Posts Tagged ‘stuttering’

Stop Making Excuses And Start Your Weight Loss Program Today

Friday, February 12th, 2010
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In my late teens I was far to over-weight and was not happy about it. I often thought about the different ways in which I could try to become slimmer, but that is all I would do, think.

I suppose that I was obese due to the fact that I comfort ate because I had a stutter. The stuttering treatment on offer was not working and I could just see no prospect of me to ever stop stuttering.

These are the reasons I would make at that stage of my life, to put off my attempts at losing weight:

I am too tired. In the morning, I would wake up with very good intentions. I would tell myself that after I finish work, that I would go for a short jog. It will then be a case of some weight training - oh yes I do love pumping some iron and I have no doubt that I will be hitting some new personal bests later on. I would also try a few press ups and also start watching what I was eating.

After work, I would return home and would then make up the excuse that I am too tired. Instead of going for a jog today, I would start my fitness regime tomorrow etc. Working for a composite door company, selling cheap holidays, was far from easy and I would come home very tired. This is perhaps one reason why I now work for a group of DVD duplication experts lol.

My body is aching. This was a regular excuse. I was forever talking to myself - I suppose I was trying to convince myself that the exercise would do me more harm than good.

It could be dangerous. When thinking in more depth about my great plan to go running I then started to convince myself that it could, in reality, be quite dangerous. What if I come across a madman with a knife?

I eventually after many years decided to stop making up these excuses. I had to be determined to not only start up a fitness regime but to stick to it. It was not easy at all but after quite a long time I reached a weight which I was happy with.

 


Stress Management Advice

Wednesday, February 10th, 2010
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I am a person who used to stress in a big way. At one point a work colleague made a comment that he thought that I walked around with the weight of the world’s problems on my shoulders. Things though had to and were about to change.

I then went about reading lots of books about mind over matter and positive thinking.

I soon learnt that worrying and stressing about a situation does not make it go away or make it any easier. I have to say that it actually makes things a lot worse. I had to realise that I can do no more than to give one hundred percent to each task I perform. When a negative thought or worry enters your head you need to immediately ignore it and to change your thought processes into thinking about something which makes you happy or smile. You have to treat these demons as your worst enemy and fight them away. Treat it like a war and be determined not to let them win the battle of minds.

I had always been a worrier; this is something that commenced in childhood probably due to the fact that I had a stutter. I did attend stuttering treatment however I only managed to overcome my stuttering problem when I was aged twenty-two after watching a seventy minute self-help therapy DVD which I bought from The How To Stop Stuttering Centre in Birmingham, England.

The next lesson I learnt was that a life spent constantly stressing is a waste of a life and the last piece of advice is to think about other people in the world who are not as fortunate as yourself.

These things have helped to improve my life in a big way; as an example I am now a successful business man selling composite doors and I also offer a professional DVD authoring service.

I hope the above stress-relief tips help other people as much as they have helped me.


Stammering And Its Causes

Saturday, February 6th, 2010
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Discovering that your child has a stammering or stuttering problem can be a very shocking and unwanted experience. Not all people who have a stutter have it from childhood. I have met quite a number of people who were fluent in childhood, however started to stutter when they were an adult. So what causes a stutter?

There are many reasons people start stuttering in the first place. These are some of them:

A very stressful or traumatic incident can result in a person starting to stutter/stammer.

A family member may have a stutter, and they have picked up the bad speaking habits.

Mimicking a person who lives in the neighbourhood or who attends the same school that has a stutter.

A family member who is perhaps too aggressive and who makes the person feel that they need to rush every word and sentence.

A few years ago, I had a female client who explained how she had developed a stutter. She had been fluent until the age of twenty four. At this age she became pregnant for the first time, she was very happy and excited about the prospects of motherhood and was certainly not prepared of what would happen next.

She was quite nervous about giving birth of the baby and her friends had been winding her up telling her how painful the experience is. She realised that they were only trying to wind her up and basically ignored them.

The day of the birth arrived and unfortunately the delivery was particulary long and difficult. She was extremely shocked about how bad it actually was and for whatever reason she developed a stutter after the birth of the baby, who was a healthy boy.

Not all people who stutter have it from an early age, another one of my clients was fluent until the age of nineteen. At this age he had a car crash and this was the trigger to him starting to stutter.

The How To Stop Stammering Centre is run by Steve Hill who himself had a stammer until he managed to overcome the speech impediment at the age of twenty-two. He offers a wide range of treatments for stammering including a one-to-one course as well as self-help products.

 


How To Succeed In Life

Sunday, December 27th, 2009
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It is important that we set ourselves goals in life, these can be short term, over a longer period of one to five years and also lifetime goals. It should not be purely a case of making personal targets - we need to make sure we attain them.

Write down your goals

I have always wanted to be a success and to have a happy life, I am sure this is the same for most people. In the early part of my life I was unable to achieve both of these aims; this was partly because I had a stuttering problem. In my early to mid twenties I decided to attempt to learn about ways in which I could ensure that the future would be a lot better, than what the past had been. I started to read many books about these topics and also about people who I considered to be successful~I soon began to read literature about these subjects in my quest to improve my life}.

I soon realised the importance of setting goals and targets and was hopeful that this could help me to stop stuttering. I thought about what I wanted to be and which course I wanted my life to take. I wrote out three different lists of my aims for the future.

The first list included what I wanted to achieve within the next twelve months. The second list contained what I wanted to achieve within five years and the third list was my lifetime goals - one of which was to own my own company selling front doors.

Avoid negative people

There are people out there who try to bring me down. Nasty comments, dirty looks and gossiping were all things that these nasty people would do~Nasty comments, dirty looks and gossiping were all things that these nasty people would do}. They look at me as If I am worthless and some kind of loser. These type of people have caused me many sleepless nights and have had a negative affect on my self-confidence.

I knew that I had to steer well clear from these bad influences; this can however be easier said than done~I knew that I had to steer well clear from these bad influences; this can however be easier said than done}.

I am pleased to report that I have now overcome the speech impediment - life is now far much happier for me.

I also own a business and also work on a part-time basis advising people on becoming a foster carer.

As you can see life is now so much better for me and I am sure that it could be for you.